Mugore/ dore ibimenyetso 5 bizakwereka umugabo uzi gukora neza imibonano

Benshi baryoherwa no kugira umukunzi,ariko bamara kurushinga bageze mu buriri gutera akabariro ngo umugore we aryoherwe bikamunanira.Hano hari bimwe mu bimenyetso 5 bizakubwira niba koko unjya uryohereza umugore wawe mu gihe muri gutera akabariro.

1.Akanya ko gutegura umugore

Umugabo arabanza agategura umugore bihagije, ntiyirukire guhita atangira igikorwa. Niba umugabo agize atya agafungura umunwa we agiye gusoma umugore we,ururimi rwe agomba kurutosa ndetse akamusomana umutuzo adahubuka.Kandi iyo agiye kumusoma agerageza gufata umunwa umwe kuri umwe hanyuma ururimi rwahura n’urwe agasa n’umwenyuramo,icyo gihe umugore we aba yumva yashize ndetse ari nako agenda aryoherwa.

2.Atuma umugore we yiyumvamo ubwiza:

Nta shobora kubwira umugore we ko aryoshye wapi, ahubwo uko agenda amukora kora cyangwa amwiyegereza,niko umugore nawe agenda yiyumvamo ko ateye neza,Ikindi uburyo umugabo arebamo umugore bimutera gushaka gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina,kandi uko avuga umugabo niko umugore agenda yumva ari gushira,bimutera ibyiyumviro bindi.

3.Ashyira amaboko ye mu bice by’ingenzi by’umugore we:

Ubundi hari abazi ko gukorakora igitsina cy’umugore aribyo bintu bituma nawe ashaka gukora imibonano mpuzaitsina,hoya!Ahubwo icyerekana umugabo uzi gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina,ni uko mu gihe ari gusomana n’umugore we,atangira kumukorakora mu mutwe ubundi agatangira gufata imisatsi yawe,ayiguya guya buhoro buhoro ndetse akagera no ku matwi ayakorakora buhoro buhoro.

4.Ntanjya avuga ku byerekeranye n’imibonano mpuzabitsina:

Ubundi hariho abagabo bagira gutya bakabwira abagore babo ngo bakore imibonano mpuzabitsina,ariko umugabo uzi gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina ujya kumva atangiye kugukorakoraho kugeza igihe nawe yumva koko agiye muri bya bihe yumva ashatse gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina,muri make ibikorwa birigaragaza n’uburyo agenda agukorakora.

5.Azi kuyobora ibitekerezo by’umugore:

Abagore benshi bumva ko niba umugabo atazi kumenya niba umugore ashaka gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina atiriwe abivuga uwo nta mugabo umurimo.Umugabo uzi icyo gukora ni wawundi umenya ko umugore ashaka gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina,ubundi nawe agahita amenya uburyo amutwaramo, ikirenze kuri ibyo nubwo waba wiyumva ute ariko ukaba utabasha gufasha umugore kugera ku ndunduro y’ibyishimo, uzamenye ko ntacyo wakoze.

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