Ibyiza by’umugore ‘waciye imyeyo’ byigaragaza iyo akoze imibonano mpuzabitsina

Gukuna, cyangwa se Guca imyeyo nk’uko bamwe babyita ni umuhango wa gikobwa ukorwa mu muco nyarwanda no mu bindi bihugu bya Afurika ugamije gutegura umukobwa kuba umugore ubereye umugabo, utangira umukobwa ari umwangavu kuko umubiri uba utarakomera rimwe na rimwe atarajya mu mihango ya gikobwa.

Umugore wakunnye aba afite umwihariko we mu gihe cy’imibonano mpuzabitsinda kimwe n’uko utavuga ko abatarakunnye bo badashimisha abagabo babo, ababikoze nibo bemeza ibyiza byabyo bitewe n’uko babibona.

1.Ububobere: Ikiganiro Bwiza.com yigeze kugirana n’umugore ufasha abagore n’abakobwa gukuna,[inkuru ye urayibona hasi] umugore witwa Masenge, yatangaje ko umugore wakunnye agira ububobereye cyane iyo umugabo arimo kumutegura, ariko ko bitavuze ko n’abatarayiciye batabugira.

2.Korohereza ukuza kw’amavangingo: Umugore waciye imyeyo, biramworohera kunyara mu gihe cy’imibonano cyangwa se kuzana amavangingo, bikubitiye kuri bwa bubobere bwinshi agira, bikanahura n’umugabo uba asanzwe azi kunyaza, ibi bituma umugore wakunnye amisha amavangingo.

3.Umwambaro ku mugore: Aha abakuze bahita babyumva, umugore wakunnye aba yifitiye umwambaro uhisha ibice by’igitsina cye, ku buryo n’iyo yakwicara akambara ubusa atagaragara nk’umugore utarakunnye, kuko igice cy’imishino aba yarakuruye gikingira ibindi by’imbere mu gitsina [ababikoze bo bahita babyumva vuba].

4.Kwigirira icyizere: Umukobwa wakunnye niyo abura icyumweru kimwe ngo ashyingirwe, aba yumva yiteguye, ko ari umukobwa witeguye kunezeza umugabo, dore ko kera iyo washakaga utarakunnye byabaga ari nk’ikimenyetso cy’uburere buke, ko utagiye mu rubohero nk’abandi bakobwa, uretse ko bitapfaga kubaho, kubona umukobwa utarakunnye, ba nyirasenge bari kuba bareba he, nyina na bakuru be bari kuba bari he? Ni umuco witabwagaho.

5.Igikundiro ku mugabo: Niba ibyatangajwe haruguru, byo kugira ububobere, amavangingo  iyo bishobotse neza, muri make umugabo anezezwa n’imiterere y’umugore we cyangwa se ibyo amwifuzaho biboneka neza, arushaho kumukunda, igihe cyose akirinda kumuca inyuma kuko aba yumva ntacyo agiye gushaka ahandi atabona iwe.

Ikijya gitera inkeke, ni uko bamwe mu bagore bibuka ko batakunnye ari uko umugabo we yatangiye kumucyuriro, akamuca inyuma amushinja kutamunezeza, n’ubwo ari umuco benshi bafata nk’urimo gucika, ariko abagabo benshi ntibabura kubibaza abagore babo, bababaza impamvu batakunnye,…

Munezero Janvier/ Celebzmagazine




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